Hi, I’m Lani!
I’m so glad you’re here.
If you’ve landed on this page, it probably means you’re a woman who’s ready to rise- not by trying harder or doing more, but by coming home to yourself. I’m a personal and professional coach for women who are ready to lead with authenticity, grace and unshakable confidence from the inside out.
Since 2010, I’ve coached hundreds of women to rediscover their voice, align with their truth, and step fully into leadership in both life and business. My work weaves together years of experience in leadership, communication, personal experiences and personal development with something deeper- the heart. Because when you’re strong and centered within yourself, your outer confidence naturally follows.
My Journey to Authentic Leadership
I wasn’t always confident. In fact, I started out painfully shy- the girl with a thousand thoughts but a trembling voice. I’d rehearse clever responses in my head and never say them out loud. But over time, life – and a few brave choices- taught me that confidence isn’t about being the loudest person in the room. It’s about knowing who you are and standing tall in it.
My early years in retail and leadership roles showed me something profound; when I led with curiosity, empathy and sincerity, people opened up. Connection became my gift. My sensitivity, once my struggle, became my superpower. It allowed me to see people deeply, to understand not just what they say, but what they feel.
That’s the foundation of my coaching today.
The Heart of Dentistry
One of my signature programs, The Heart of Dentistry, was born from a desire to help women lead from a place of authentic feminine strength. It’s not about hardening yourself to fit in a masculine model of leadership- it’s about embracing your natural warmth, intuition, and compassion as power, not weakness.
This program feels like the wisdom and courage of your grandmother wrapped in a warm hug- reminding you that you can be gentle and strong, soft and steady, kind and powerful. It’s about learning to lead in a way that feels aligned, graceful, and deeply human.
My Core Beliefs
Authenticity– Everything I teach begins with truth. Confidence can only flourish when you stop performing and start being real.
Love First– Love and connection are at the heart of everything I do. Leadership without humanity isn’t leadership at all.
Growth Mindset– I’m a lifelong learner, always exploring new ways to expand consciousness, compassion and courage.
Healthy Boundaries– Protecting your peace isn’t selfish- it’s sacred. I teach women how to honor their worth and guard their energy.
My Work Today
Through my company, Wave of Women, I coach and mentor women across industries- especially those navigating leadership, entrepreneurship, ad professional reinvention. Whether through private coaching, group programs, or in-person consulting, my mission is the same; to help women step into their authentic confidence, communicate with clarity and lead with heart.
Because when a woman remembers who she truly is- grounded radiant, and self-assured- she becomes unstoppable.
Thank you for being here.
You don’t have to “find” your superpower- you already have it. I’m just here to help you come home to it.
With my whole heart,
Leilani Ray
Founder, Wave of Women
Creator of the Heart of Dentistry
Want to find out more about what it’s like to work with me?
If any of this resonates with your heart, this could be a sign to contact me at joinus@waveofwomen.com and simply request a complimentary 30-minute Self Discovery Session with me.
Cheers to you and your next level!